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themarediaries:

prelimpotential:

ya know tumblr has really made me feel like the shittiest horse owner EVER for boarding my horse in a stall and giving him dry lot turnout. there are no options here??? and i’m not rich. i can either stop competing, and board my horse out in the boonies on an okay dirt lot with acreage, or i can board him in a stall, compete with him, and see him more often. i’m sorry, but i really don’t think i’m a horrible horse owner for not being able to give my horse a perfect life. 

Sameeeee. And tbh my horse losses a lot of weight when he’s out in the pasture 24/7 cause he 1-doesn’t stop running around, and 2- is distracted by literally everything for feeding time and usually misses half his meals (and it wasn’t possible where he was to bring in to feed him) and I’m the worst barn hopper ever because I always find a major fault with the management of the places I board except for the places that have stall board

I don’t even have a horse yet and tumblr makes me feel like the worst horse owner ever.

sophygurl:

glumshoe:

A reminder that turning in assignments for partial credit is better than not turning them in at all. It is. Even if you think you’ve done a bad job and are ashamed of your work, or it’s way overdue, you take whatever you can get. Partial credit dramatically improves your grade over a zero, and I’m always astounded by how often even the smartest kids don’t really comprehend that. 60% is worlds better than 0%. Even 10% is going to help you. Letter grades are misleading and are not created equal. “F"s are mathematically valuable. Turn that late assignment in.

This goes for so many things in life tbh.

Can’t pay the full amount you owe on a bill? Pay as much as you can each month. Most places just wanna know you’re making a good faith effort. You can usually even call and ask for a smaller minimum monthly payment plan until you catch up, so that maybe you won’t be getting late fees added on to your balance. It’s worth calling to see. 

Third time you’ve had to reschedule that doctor’s appointment? Oh well. Your doc probably just wants to make sure you make it in to their office at all. Keep trying.

Half-assing is always better than no-assing folks. I know lots of us are anxiety-ridden perfectionists and it feels like if we can’t do everything exactly right on the first try we just shouldn’t bother. But that’s not true. 

My mom likes to say “anything worth doing is worth doing poorly” to emphasize that it’s okay to enjoy doing things even if you’re not good at them. The point is doing them. Make that shitty art project that makes you happy. Learn that new skill even if you suck at it at first. Make it to under half of the events of that club or organization you want to be a part of but can’t fully commit to. It’s okay. You don’t have to do it perfectly to do it at all.