the-starhorse:

So Prowl and I get in line at Starbucks to get a latte. We do this a lot. In fact, this particular Prowl has lived in my purse since I bought him in April. Even if I take him out of my purse (so other robots can have a turn riding around town), he sneaks back in. I think he just wants to capitalize on all coffee opportunities, but I don’t really mind, because I think it’s important in life to have a Pocket Prowl.

But I digress.

So the point of this little story is that people will sometimes ask what I’m doing when I take pictures of my robots in public. I don’t mind, and I’ll happily tell people that I am taking pictures of my robots’ adventures around town, and posting them online. They give me a blank look, like I just spoke Klingon. They ask why I would do this. I say it’s because I’m having fun. At this point, they’re usually looking at me as though I’m some frightening breed of bug, but I don’t really mind that either. I can tell that they just don’t have a mental place to file what I’m doing. They don’t understand “fun” that doesn’t fit into their category of “fun.” I’m not bowling, drinking beer, or attending a concert. I’m not at a movie, or shopping (unless one counts the coffee), so they have no idea what I mean when I say I’m having “fun.” It’s like I’m speaking a foreign language. 

But then they do the one thing that irritates me completely. They say, “It’s ok. Don’t worry about it.” Or, “It’s ok, I don’t mind.” As if I  had just apologized. Wrong.

And I will say, “I wasn’t apologizing to you. I was just explaining to you what I’m doing.”

Then their eyes get big. “OH. Oh.” And they blink, and sort of look helplessly around, as though I really ought to be apologizing, especially now that I’ve been gauche enough not to. “Well. I was just wondering after all,” they will say. “What you were doing. I mean.”

You mean what? I mean, really. What do you mean? That I’m not an exact replica of you, doing exactly what you would do at every moment of my life?

I’m just at a total loss for why people think it’s their business what I’m doing. I don’t mind them asking, not at all. That’s totally cool. But when they get to the point where they assume that I should, or even am apologizing to them for doing something that they don’t understand, I really have no patience for that. It is ok to photograph robots in public. It is ok to do something that’s just not normal. Obviously, if I were being obnoxious or disruptive in some way, I would understand people being annoyed with me. But I really don’t have any room for being treated as though I somehow owe an apology for doing what others simply may not understand.

It’s ok to not be doing what everyone else is doing. It’s ok to just have fun. It’s ok to be yourself. And we shouldn’t have to apologize for doing exactly that. I know that the majority of people will never come to this realization, and that’s sad, because we end up wasting a life trying to be exactly like everyone else — who by the way, is trying desperately to be exactly like everyone else. So who is it we’re supposed to be like if everyone is trying to be who they’re not?

I will continue to unapologetically be myself. And to anyone out there on my Tumblr feed who catches flak for doing what you love, keep doing it, because there are others of us doing what we love, too. Someone once said to me that we’re born as original works of art, and by the end of our lives, most people are carbon copies of every other carbon copy. I don’t want to lose my originality, and neither should you. Do what you love, and don’t apologize for doing it. Don’t forget how to be a kid. And if you have a robot in your pocket or purse or wherever you like to keep him, take him for coffee once in a while. Trust me, he’ll love you for it. 

🙂

hitchhikersguidetothegalaxy:

thecaptainsbonnet:

Some days I feel like Zaphod Beeblebrox and I feel flawless because hey I am one cool frood

Other days I feel more like Marvin and I feel really depressed because everyone else is an idiot

But most days I feel and act a lot more like Arthur Dent because I spend all day in my jim-jams and dressing gown and I have no idea what’s going on

THIS

I think most of the time, I’m Zaphod in my head, Marvin to my family, Trillian to my boyfriend, Ford to random strangers, and Arthur to my friends.

coraregina:

icy-mischief:

Look at this adorable fucker my GOD. 

He is selling a terrorist speech on totalitarianism and warped maternal instinct (the latter being Joss Whedon’s words on the scene) and HE IS STILL OUT OF CONTEXT THE MOST ENDEARING LOOKING GIDDILY PLEASED LITTLE BOY. THAT IS WHY THIS CHARACTER IS TERRIFYING AND HEARTBREAKING IN EQUAL MEASURE, OKAY? He is A DERANGED BITTER JEALOUS CONNIVING BASTARD and a LITTLE BOY STARVED FOR LOVE AND APPROVAL 

IN

THE

SAME

SCENE. 

Over

AND

OVER. 

Clu 2 knows that feel, Loki.

Jesus Christ why do I always love the characters who go this route. I want to give them fudge and hugs and a shitload of therapy.

As many of you know, I recently purchased an Uruk-Hai scimitar.

theprettynerdie:

nudityandnerdery:

speakerwiggin:

zohbugg:

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Well let me tell you, it was quite the pragmatic purchase. It has endless uses in my morning routine.

Such as making the bed:

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Making toast:

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Getting things off high shelves:

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Making coffee:

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Reaching the remote when it’s too far away:

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And assisting me when I ran out of toilet paper:

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I don’t know how I survived life without it.

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No comment necessary.

You are my hero.

this girl is so cute eeeee